Allowing has been a challenge for me. I have been called a helicopter mom, and controlling. I’m learning when I get too close in someone’s space by my own reactions. I get annoyed or upset, because it is not going the way I want it to and I am trying to force it. But the truth is, it’s not my assignment and I’m over stepping my proper place in the situation.
So I’m learning to allow. Allowing myself the freedom from taking on other’s distress and sadness. Allowing people to ask for what they need instead of me offering it so quickly. Allowing myself to be okay with my assignments to serve in the right way at the right time based on Divine timing!
I’m happy that allowing is getting easier because I can now see how others can unknowingly pull you into their sadness and pain. Knowing I don’t have to sit in it with them, while still being there for them has brought me a lot of peace. I invite you to allow too. It is liberating!
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